Do you want to be where you are right now? If the answer is no, you’ll be suffering. If the answer is such an enthusiastic yes, that you are planning how to keep or repeat the experience, you’ll also be suffering.
If there is a tendency to seek comfort, security, pleasure, happiness, and fulfillment in a future experience, we will be disconnected from the reality of the present moment. Planning, seeking, craving, hoping, rehearsing, fantasizing, worrying and anxiety are mental habits that all share an element of seeking something that isn’t currently present.
Recently I was inspired by a comment by Ajahn Brahm about wanting to be where you are. Playing with this simple instruction I have been periodically reminding myself to want to be here. Each time I remember, I accept the invitation to settle with whatever is actually happening, pleasant or unpleasant—to find contentment with what is real.
In the Abhidhamma classification of mental factors, the occasional factor of desire is not so very occasional. It is a feature of every wholesome state, and all the unwholesome states rooted in greed and hate. It is classified as “occasional” because it is absent in delusion based Continue reading →